My Little Children

This is a letter to God’s children.  It is not to God's adult children but it is meant for the young children of God who need a Father.

The Holy Spirit has been dealing with me for quite some time about writing a letter to His children.  The children who have been abused, misused and left to fend for themselves.  This draws from all ages, but specifically for this letter, it is to hurting youth, whomever you are and wherever you are.  God hears your cries, knows your hurts, your pains and your sufferings.  It is time that you are made aware of the fact that you have a real Father in Heaven who loves you when it seems that no one else does.

I am an adult.  At least I am of the age to be considered an adult. (Never mind how old!) Adults have been given the responsibility by God to have children.  He gave adults children as gifts to be nurtured, loved and cared for, but that is not what is going on for the most part.  These children that have been given to the Baby Boomers (The Generation Xers too) are crying out for help.  My generation has dropped the ball.  I still believe that there are many Baby Boomers themselves who are still hurt children because of childhood issues and have therefore been unable to help their own children.  But, the Good News is that it isn’t too late to pick up that ball and everyone be healed and delivered.  Children, it is time to help you with answers that are life transforming.  I am a parent (I have also been a hurt child) and I have a child who, because of my willingness to be honest, is being set free from the hurt and pain I inflicted upon her.  We have had several serious, gut-wrenching talks that have helped deliver us both from deep-seated wounds.  What if your parents don’t want to acknowledge their lack of parenting?  You then focus on yourself for the time being and the Holy Spirit will guide you as to what to do for them when the time comes. 

As I go around, I see a lot of hurt, angry, abused children who are having a hard time coping with life.  They seem to have no direction, may or may not have body markings and piercings,  are neglected and hurt, having no one to guide them. They are turning to every form of destruction, whether drink, drug or self-inflicting mutilation, to express the deep hurt within.  Some of it is demonic, to be certain.  Hurt and pain are no respecter of persons.

But, if you have parents that are blaming you for the way you have turned out or you have no parents or relatives that look after you, then this message is for you.  God sees your hurts and He wants to help you.  You do not have to stay in the situation you are in regardless of where you are.  God has a specific destiny and purpose for your life.  There is hope for you.  You don’t have to drift through life never knowing what to do, how to do it, or by being pounded by adults who say you are no good.  Those days have been here for years and it is time to realize that you are worth something to the Father…your Father.

You will have to be the one though to take a step towards your life being more than it is right now.  You will have to be the one to reach through the Heavens to someone who is ready and willing to love you even though you cannot see Him.  You have a Father who loves you when no one else does and He hears and sees who you are.

The best part of Jesus Christ being sent to earth to die for us was to give Himself to us.  What I am telling you has nothing to do with church.  This has to do with getting to know your Father in Heaven. I can tell you from my own experience that He is real and wants to settle you in your life so you can be happy.

Some of you need to be delivered from drugs, alcohol, fornication, homosexuality, idolatry, cutting, tattooing and body piercing….am I being judgmental?  No. But let's call a spade a spade so you can be set free.  There is only one judge and I discovered long ago that I am not He.  But you won't want to do any of the above if you are truly happy.   Will God get mad at you if you are doing those things?  We have a Father who loves us in spite of everything we can do to inflict hurt upon ourselves, and He is willing and ready to love each of us in spite of what we have done or are doing. He sees everything all at once and He wants to help you with your torment.

Some of you get pregnant at a young age thinking you can trap a man into loving you.  You do this to get away from a bad home life or think if you can just get married that your life will mimic what is in the movies or TV, which shows most things to be happy. The marriage turns out to be your greatest nightmare.  Others are young and married and carry much baggage into the relationship and then they end up sucking each other dry for what they need.  Then others think if they have a baby, it will help a rocky marriage…wrong.  If you are having troubles in your marriage before you have children, then a baby isn’t the cure.  When you have a child, the child becomes a hindrance and you end up fussing at the baby because you have issues of your own that have never been dealt with.  Then you try to drug up the child because “they are children” and you really can't stand them being kids. You yell at them which causes deep trauma to them.  Then they grow up.  Trouble starts and the parents wonder what in the world is wrong with the children.  The home atmosphere has not been good. The children grow up having issues and if the cycle isn’t broken, history repeats itself over and over. Why do you think we have so many messed up children and adults in the world?  We need a SAVIOR! 

If you are one of these children, then it is time to STOP.  It is time to get healed.  There are times when the Holy Spirit will come in and heal you of something immediately, and then there are times when other things will be taken from you a little at a time when He sees fit.  But I want you to know that God is faithful and if you will turn to Him in your sorrow, He will get you some answers for your life.

I don’t care what you have done or what you are going through, you have a Father who wants to help you.  If you don’t believe it, then click this and read my testimony.  There is not a psychiatrist or doctor who can help you better than “The Great Physician” Himself.  It is time to find out how you can be healed from within.

God is waiting just for you.  I don’t know who you are or what you are doing, but if your are hurting and inflicting only more pain and sorrow upon yourself and others, then it is time to go to someone who can help you.  You have your own purpose and destiny that God wants to help get you to, but YOU will have to be the one to ask Him.  He is not going to make you do it.  You might be so low that you feel like you are crawling in the gutter. It doesn’t have to be a physical gutter but a gutter in your heart, however, know God can lift you up out of it.  The choice, if you are reading this, is placed before you now.  Don’t ever say that God didn’t care…from this moment on.

In life, it always takes two to tango... a parent and a child.  I have had parents absolutely dog their children to my face. The kids are so hurt it spills out in the form of many different kinds of hurt and rebellion.  Every time someone starts pointing a finger at their child, I want to take that finger and point it back at them. I was tempted many times to get them a mirror and tell them to look in it and see what their children's problem was.  A lot of deep wounds are from circumstances beyond a child’s control.  Many are learned from the very adults they are around.  Some wounds are self-inflicted and then some are coming straight from the pit of hell.  Even though the things have come against you and you feel all alone, whether in a room full of adults or peers, I want you to know that there is someone willing to help you.  You are not alone.  If your parents haven't done their job well, you will learn (with time) to forgive them so you can rise up and gain the victory on this earth.  It will be your job to pray for them so they too can get some relief inside with their hurts and pains.  If you haven't had parents, you will come to know that you have a Father in Heaven who loves you unconditionally.  Most parents are ignorant of the fact that it was them who caused any hurt and pain and that's okay.  You will learn to forgive them through Jesus Christ.  With God nothing is impossible for you.  This gift is one of His greatest promises to us as His children.  It is yours to take now.  Will you? 

Life isn’t easy. Jesus is ready…aren’t you tired of the life you are living?

God Bless you little ones,

If you need my help, I am an email away.

Love,

Molly