Proverbs 37:4 Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
There is much to be said for growing up into the things of Christ. When you first get saved, you are a baby Christian. You are just learning about God and His ways but as you develop and grow into the things of God, the Holy Spirit matures you and reveals more of God to you. When you ask God for things (and believe me I have asked God for everything that I ever desired), a lot of times you ask amiss because you are young and just think, well, “He said ask and He will give, so I will.” But if you will continue with Christ (He won’t let you go in and grab what you want and escape), there will come a time when you will ask the Father what you desire and He will let you have it. By that time, you won’t ask silly things but you will ask for things that God has already placed in you. When you ask Him for desires, He gives them to you because it is His will that you have them anyway. By this time, you are ready to receive them and He knows you can handle them. THEN, and only then, does He give you the desires of your heart. Just because you ask Him for anything doesn’t mean you are going to get it. If the desire is in your destiny and journey of life, He will give it you. There are a lot of people who think they can ask for whatever they want and God is going to let them have it….they are wrong. There was a woman I knew who desired to have a lot of money so she could help others. She put a sticky note on her mirror every morning and claimed this money. She had gone to God in prayer and told Him she wanted this money to help others. She never got it, to my knowledge. There is a scripture that says you haven’t received because you ask amiss (James 2-3). If you are lusting after someone or something and it wouldn’t be good for you to have, God won’t give it to you. Then, sometimes He lets you have things you really shouldn’t because you won’t listen to Him and this is the only way He can get your attention. So be wise when you ask God for things. Make certain of what you ask God for. Is it a want or God's will?