When I look at a minus sign, I feel negative.  When I look at a plus sign, I feel positive.  We all look at life either “half full” or “half empty”.  You might be thinking you don’t know what has happened to me in my life; I have a right to be negative.  I understand that bad things happen to all of us but I have learned the outcome is how we perceive and then receive the situations in our life that determines the end result.

The following statements are typical of us as humans: Why doesn’t anything happen for me? Why are you making me do this?  How come everybody else gets to do it but me?  How come you prosper them and not me?  Why don’t you help me?  Why does my husband do what he is doing?  Why don’t you make him stop?  Why aren’t my children better?  Why does my wife complain all the time?   Whine, Whine, Whine, Whine, and Whine (not Wine!)

Don’t be hardheaded like I was and think that your words are not a reflection of your attitude and what is happening on the inside of you.  You have to make the decision to make a change if you want something different than what you are living in at this very moment of time.  Some choices you have made will have repercussions for years to come and others can be rectified easily but you have to decide what it is you truly want.  Don’t let the enemy of your soul defeat you in your life through your attitude because for him it is an easy way to gain the victory over you.     

Your actions reflect your attitude so take a good look at what is happening around you.  If you want something different than you have right now then you will have to do something different.  The choice of positive or negative is for all of us but you are the one who holds the key to unlock the outcome.  Don’t let the enemy of your soul or the actions of others determine your fate. Your life/ Your choice… we all have free will.